Ad
Ad
Ad
Author

Apeksha Rawat

Browsing

Breakups are never easy!! They leave you heartbroken and make you cry your eyes out. Whether your relationship lasted for a month or three years, breakups always have some emotional consequences that can be quite painful. Every person has their own way of dealing with it, some prefer to listen to romantic numbers keeping the tissue box handy while others try to shed their pain over the bottle of wine; some try to keep themselves busy at work while others go out and meet new people.

Of course, there is going to be a grieving period that can make you feel lonely but time is the biggest healer that heals all the emotional wounds.

Here are a few good tricks to help you cope up with the aftereffects of a breakup, heal, grow, and move ahead in life leaving behind the emotional pain.

Talk It Out
Talk It Out
Image Source – Google

Keeping unpleasant feelings inside will do no good to you. They not only hurt you but also prevent from moving past them. Breakups come with the baggage of sad emotions- disappointment, the feeling of rejection, loneliness, etc. If you are not able to deal with it all by yourself, then consult a therapist or talk to a close friend to vent out all the negative emotions.

Do Things That You Love
Do Things That You Love
Image Source – Google

Breakups hurt. Period. But we can’t let that miserable feeling drive our entire life in a negative direction. Start to enjoy yourself and do things that always fill your heart with immense happiness. It will boost your mood and ease the feeling of loneliness and sadness.

Take Good Care Of Yourself
Take Good Care Of Yourself
Image Source – Google

Health comes first, always!! And you can never ever neglect that. Don’t let the feeling of rejection let you develop unhealthy food habits. A balanced diet including plenty of fresh fruits and green vegetables can neutralize the stress that comes with the breakup. Instead of crying and feeling bad about yourself, focus your energy towards keeping your body happy and healthy.

Remember the Good Things in Your Life
REMEMBER THE GOOD THINGS IN YOUR LIFE
Image Source – Google

When you are sad and your spirit is low, it is easy to see the loss in everything that starts overwhelming the positive things in your life. It is hard but you can always try to feel grateful for all the good things in life. Thinking about the good things will enhance your well-being and improve your outlook on life.

Steer Clear Of Social Media for Sometime
Steer Clear Of Social Media for Sometime
Image Source – Google

Stalking your ex on social media post-breakup is a big no-no!! Our advice is to stay away from social media for a few days so that you don’t end up in an embarrassing situation by putting emotional posts on Facebook. Also, if seeing your ex’s pictures or status bother you, then simply block them to keep the sad and negative feelings at a bay.

Meet New People
Meet New People
Image Source – Google

Life moves on and that’s the beauty of it!! Anyone going through a breakup has their fair share of sad days, teary eyes, and the broken heart but it needs to stop somewhere. Once you believe you are ready to stand on your feet again, start meeting new people and spend time with them. And never ever try to compare your new relationship or partner with the old one.

Acceptance Is the Greatest Virtue
Acceptance Is the Greatest Virtue
Image Source – Google

The earlier you understand, the more you will benefit from it!! You need to accept the fact that your relationship did not work and spending more time and energy into it was not worth. Start recognizing your self-worth that you deserve to be happy in life. Learn from the old mistakes so that you don’t repeat them, focus on your best qualities and move ahead with positivity in the heart.

Always remember that you are the reason for someone’s smile in this world. So, be kind to yourself and time will eventually heal all the wounds that a breakup can possibly give you!!

“If you want a relationship that looks and feels like the most amazing thing on earth, you need to treat it like it is the most amazing thing on earth.”

Being in love is the most comforting feeling. Knowing that even when the whole world turns its back on you, there will be that one person waiting for you at the end of the tunnel- nothing in the whole world can beat that amazing feeling!! Love relationships come with a lot of perks- the sweet good morning texts, walking hand in hand, making up after the silly fights, and stealing kisses. They make you feel alive and see beauty everywhere around. Yes, being in love is quite magical!!

When in a relationship, the most important thing to remember is- “They only work, when you work.” If you are in a long-distance relationship, you must have heard your friends and family members saying that it’s never going to work out and eventually you will get your heart broken. Our suggestion- don’t listen to them!! If there is love in the heart and face of that special someone always lights up your day, then distances don’t matter. We are not saying that a long-distance relationship is going to be all smiles and no tears. Of course, there are going to be a few challenges, like any other relationship, but the proper communication, clarity, and commitment will let it sail smoothly.

So here are some golden tips to keep your long-distance relationship alive and strong!!

Be Open about Your Feelings
Be Open about Your Feelings
Image Source – Google

Hiding feelings and not letting your partner know how you feel about your relationship does no good to anyone. Talk to them about anything and everything!! If there are some qualities of your partner that you adore with all your heart, do let them know. Similarly, if any of their habits bother you, never hide it from them. Because you never know when the little obstacles can become mountains and ruin the relationship.

Communicate Regularly and Clearly
Communicate Regularly and Clearly
Image Source – Google

The first and foremost step for a successful long-distance relationship is- healthy and regular communication. It keeps you updated about the life of your partner and its happenings. Choose the time and mode of communication. Send pictures, audios, and videos to each other from time to time. These cute little things go a long way in strengthening your relationship and making your partner feel loved. Also, set some ground rules so that your actions don’t take the other person by surprise.

Give Some Space to Your Partner
Give Some Space to Your Partner
Image Source – Google

No matter how busy or engaged we get in life, we all need some time alone. And being alone doesn’t mean lonely. After all, self-introspection help us realize our strengths and weaknesses that strive us to become a better person, which benefits our partner in a great way. When in the long-distance relationship, people sometimes have these impractical expectations that their partner will answer their calls in the very first ring and respond straight away to every text. Don’t keep such expectations!! Give enough space to your partner to let your relationship grow organically.

Honesty and Trust Is the Key
Honesty and Trust Is the Key
Image Source – Google

It is quite common to have the feelings of fear, insecurity, and jealousy in relationships. And they tend to become bigger when you live away from your partner. Do not let the paranoia swallow up your peace of mind. Honesty and trust must be the foundation of every relationship. And if you ever doubt that your partner is not being loyal to you, then instead of spying on their social media accounts, go and talk directly to them before it gets too late.

Visit Each Other As Much As You Can
Visit Each Other As Much As You Can
Image Source – Google

Getting to meet your partner, holding hands, and kissing them is quite a luxury in a long-distance relationship. But whenever it happens, it is extra special, the feeling is quite magical and you can hear the violins playing in the background. You can make a pact with your partner that every alternate month you will meet each other, try some new activities, and create beautiful memories to treasure till you get to meet next.

Be Positive
Be Positive
Image Source – Google

Staying positive in all the situations makes life much better. Don’t be sad that you are miles apart from your partner. Just be grateful for the fact that you have someone to love who loves you back with all their heart and soul. You may get less time to meet each other, but remember it is always quality that matters over quantity. So never forget to enjoy your little meetings that are sweet as heaven!!

Long distance relationships may be tough, but they give you reasons to love your partner harder!! We hope the tips mentioned above work for you in a miraculous way and make your relationship happier and stronger.

Bitnami