Who was your first crush? Do you remember his/her name? Do you still remember the way to the tuition class you all went to? It is said that what one loves in childhood remain in the heart forever. Maybe you also remember those innocent days when the dreams and desires were not so big. Everyone had a cute little crush on someone from the neighborhood, school, or tuition batch. Just a glimpse of that person was enough to sustain hundreds of dreamy thoughts in your headspace – right? And the best part is perhaps you never had to say that you like that person – he/she understood with your behavior!
Wish those cute and guiltless days of childhood could return again! We all wish for those days to return but they wouldn’t because time moves forward – the harsh truth! What you can do is – take your mind back to those times and remember those days. Just like me, you will smile happily!
Simply FLAMES Was Life & Happiness
F – Friends; L – Love; A – Affair; M – Marriage; E – Enemy; S – Sister; This game was equal to love and happiness. If you have started liking someone, you always predicted your future with that person by playing this game. The similar letters of the names were nullified and the remaining were counted to move through the letters in the word “FLAME” one at a time until your count reaches the total number of leftover letters that you found previously. Mostly, all the last pages of all your notebooks were filled with this life-saving game! If E and S were the results, you used to avoid this person and if not you had a broad smile on your face!
Saving The Best Seat In The School Bus
Of course, you had to save the best seat on the school bus for him/her just to be in the good books! Sometimes, the other person also reciprocated the same and all your dreams of that age just came true for that one moment. You didn’t like the idea of him/her sitting away from you!
The Best Snack Or Sweet Was For That Lucky One
If you felt shy to give him/her the best snack or sweet, you requested your best friend to arrange a meeting at a quiet place to hand over the piece of heaven. Imagine, how simple were the happiness back then! You coaxed your mom to put that sweet/snack in your tiffin so that you can impress your lucky boy/girl.
You Actually Loved Your Friends Teasing You With Your Crush
Now, be honest! You secretly had fairies dancing, clouds floating, and romantic songs playing in your head when your friends teased you with your crush’s name. But you acted as if you are too annoyed with their behavior. You shouted on your friends and even said that “there’s nothing like that, don’t overthink” n that jazz. But you waited to return home and reminisce those secret glances and start blushing.
Your Crush Was The Universe
Be it the school or the tuition classes, your crush was the universe to you. Who cares or wants to learn trigonometry, the speed of light, mineral resources of India, or poems of Wordsworth! All you want to know was how he/she looks, how he/she reacts, how he/she smiles, how he/she walks, etc. You always woke up before the exam and your friends saved you from failing.
Being Proud For Your Crush
You were always very proud of him/her achievements – be it in academics, verbal fight, physical fight, sports, elocution, etc. Your crush always pumped your chest and you felt like you won along with your crush. Such impeccable love is perhaps possible in childhood only.
Bollywood Fueled Your Imagination
Bollywood can never be devoid of romance. In every genre of movies be it sports or thriller, murder mystery or comedy – there has to be a romantic angle. While listening to Bollywood songs, you imagined the face of your crush. While watching the videos of Bollywood songs, you replaced the hero/heroine with your crush. While you are alone in your room, you imagined these filmy sequences happening to you and your crush! That was too much love & fun for sure.
Those were the days when love didn’t arrive with a checklist like it does today. That first person you had a crush on your childhood was the best person to love. Why? Because there was no expectation at all. With time we lose touch with that attribute of love which is to feel free and expect nothing in the relationship. After reliving these cute and nostalgic days of school romance, I am sure you all would bring that flavor back with your current partner!